Why We Fight

Anyone in a long-term relationship knows that fighting is inevitable. The question is whether you can do it well. Fighting well is harder than it sounds, and learning how to do it is the foundation of every relationship that actually lasts.

Before Kim became a therapist, she spent years as an IT engineer for a Fortune 500 company. That background shaped how she thinks about conflict: find the root cause, then fix it. In Why We Fight, she brings that same approach to relationships.

You'll discover your core wound, the belief underneath your reactions. Something like “my feelings don't matter” or “I don't belong.” You'll learn why it keeps showing up in your closest relationships, and what to do when it does.